The envelope was smooth and creamy, it felt expensive. Rich and luxurious paper, announcing right away, even before the careful calligraphy announced wedding with all its curlicues and fanciful penmanship. It is a joy to be invited to this celebration of love, what with an open bar and dancing, especially when most of my friends are getting divorced. These days, the brides and grooms are my friend’s children, and there really is something wonderful about the