Many years ago, our cat Cheeseball was hit by a car. As I struggled to the vet, pregnant, with two toddlers in tow, I scowled at my husband: “We will not be one of those crazy pet families. I’m not spending a single dollar on saving this cat. Do you hear me? If he’s gotta go, he’s gotta go.” Makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside, eh? At the