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When is a child too old for stuffed animals?

July 22, 2016 by Kate Mayer 5 Comments

He used to be a soft, velvety pink. He used to have two eyes. My childhood stuffed animal had button eyes made of sapphire glass; shiny satin ears that stood up straight and bent into different shapes, because 50 years ago, wire in children’s toys and button eyes weren’t a choking hazard.

Bubby, my own 50 year-old stuffed bunny now faded to a sad silly-putty gray, is at the bottom of an antique chest at the top of the stairs, ironically hidden under extra-long twin sheets for college dorm rooms saved for the next kid we ship off.

Bubby was my childhood lovey, and yes I still have him. And no I don’t sleep with him and rub the satin off his ears while sucking my thumb, but I’d be lying if I told you if I dug him out right now, the urge wouldn’t hit.

sending kids to college and they leave their stuffed animals at homeI wrote about my kid going to college and leaving her stuffed animals behind, and here’s a little inside info: Bayba is real, pictured here, but Blankey has been fictionalized to protect the innocent.

What’s not in the essay: this happened after the Sandy Hook shooting when my oldest kid’s grief spun out of control, and she desperately clung for something from home. She was in college, three states away, isolated, homesick for the cool, calm, comfort she used to think of as home – recognizing faces and places of her faraway town depicted on the 24/7 news channels and social media feeds and at a loss of what to do or how to do it.

My essay was picked up by Grown & Flown, the popular on-line magazine for those with tween, teen, college/young adult children. They’ve syndicated my work before, and have been very generous sharing my stories on their crazy popular Facebook page. This is my first time being a first timer for this successful sight for empty nesters, or soon to be empty nesters.

You can read it here, and I’m grateful for any comments and shares. Very grateful.


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  1. Lisa Labella says

    July 24, 2016 at 1:59 am

    Beautiful as always!

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  2. 1010ParkPlace says

    July 24, 2016 at 4:29 pm

    You’re never too old for something that brings you comfort. When I had my first of 10 breast cancer surgeries, my best girlfriend since high school brought a small, stuffed, brown dog with big floppy ears to the hospital. I kept it on the tray in front of me, slept with it, brought it to each successive surgery and took it to each of my eight rounds of chemo. It was a “portable” version of my own dogs at home who love me and bring me comfort. When I downsized and put everything in storage, I made sure to bring my stuffed dog with me. Thanks for this wonderful reminder of how dear he is. I’m thinking I need to blog about the same topic: How old is too old for stuffed animals? Brenda

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    • Kate Mayer says

      July 24, 2016 at 6:27 pm

      What a good friend, what a lucky pup, and what a wonderful story! Write it up!

      Reply
  3. Diane says

    July 24, 2016 at 7:13 pm

    Never too old! Never.

    Reply
    • Kate Mayer says

      July 25, 2016 at 12:33 pm

      agreed!

      Reply

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An irreverent storyteller with a foul mouth and big heart, Kathryn Mayer (also known by Kathy and Kate), is a writer, humorist, and activist writing out loud with humor and grace about the little moments of life with big ripples, including parenting, social issues, midlife, and, sigh, gun violence prevention. Sometimes a big deal, sometimes not Mayer is national award-winning columnist, according to the National Society of Newspaper Columnists, and her essays have been recognized as Voice of the Year from SheKnows/BlogHer, named Best … Read More Here...

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